Love

How long have you know the person you are now going out with? Have you ever asked yourself why? Or has that 'why' never appear in your mind?

The definition of crush in my book:-
Crush is a feeling you get when you are attracted to someone because of his/her looks,the first impressions...this is neither like nor love.

The definition of like in my book:-
Like is a feeling you get when you like that person for their personality,for who they are...this is like.

The definition of love in my book:-
Love is a curious thing, when you look for it,it would not come but when you least expect it, it comes to you seeking you out asking you to return it. Love is a feeling you get when you love him/her for no apparent reason,even if he/she was a jerk to your family and friends,to you he/she is an angel. Love needs no reason.


Love too cannot be measured, many asked the person they like/love,'how much do you like me?' this question should never be asked if you trust the person before you,if you love him/her never ask this stupid question. If you really need an answer for that, you are being shallow, you believe love can be measured,you feel that that person loves you only when he/she says she'll die for you.

Will you then,be satisfied? Let time tell you if he/she is worthy of your love,do not question his/her love for you but question your love for him/her,how much you love him/her? Can you measure it? If you can,then you don't love him/her much...it's all but like or affection influenced by the intimacy you both shared. LOVE can never ever be measured in anyway.

Love at first sight..is to me delusional,they are all but illusions,not many can find true love through first sight. True love can only be found through time,through hardships and through trust. No one can see a person and say that person is the love of their live...how do you know? The feeling you get? That would be greatly influenced by his/her looks,you can't tell if he/she is the one..for only through time will you know.

Your parents give/gave you unconditional love,your spouse should and would give you the same. If the love is conditional,it isn't love at all...if you found your spouse by first sight,I would congratulate you but if you found your bf/gf by first sight..and believe him/her to be the ONE,I suggest give it time...Love is a curious thing for it needs no reason and of all emotions and things in the world it...can never be measured in any way of any form.